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                                                Listening Ears

April 2009

Shortly after our provincial chapter 2006, which we opened with a day of reflection on the Sacredness of water and the essential part it plays in the life of all creation, Sister Kate Conti, provincial, had the opportunity to experience the destructive power of water through the stories of the major superiors whose communities had lived through and were still in the throes of the aftermath of Hurricane Katrina in New Orleans. The panel so moved her that she requested all of us to listen to the DVD and experience the stories for ourselves – and that is the beginning of what became “Project Listening Ears”.

Over the past 11 months, we have lived out the province’s “Listening Ears” project in a variety of ways. After much interviewing and listening to the expressed needs of the area, the project was developed to provide the people of New Orleans with a compassionate listening presence on a short term basis – a need identified by the various agencies and people already on the ground in the city. In doing this, caregivers and clients alike could share their stories with others who did not have a story of their own to share, and who would therefore be freer to listen and truly hear what was being said.

This was done in St. Mary of the Angels parish, the only Franciscan parish in the city, where Sister Jean used her listening and networking skills, accompanied by student Sister Divina Mu, as they visited the newly returning parishioners to help surface needs for the parish leadership to know about.

It was carried on when Sisters Joan Reisch, Janice Jolin, Cecilia Walsh, together with co-worker Lillian DeCristafaro and friend Caryl Hubert spent several days working through the Archdiocese in Chateau de Notre Dame, one of their re-opened nursing homes; the five became “the wheelchair brigade,” having been given the task of checking the patients’ wheelchairs, which enabled much conversation to take place with  staff and patients alike. As Sr. Joan expresses it, “it was an honor to be there and I will always remember the graciousness of the nursing home residents, staff and the Holy Cross Sisters with whom we stayed.” 

Sisters Marcia and Eleanor  also worked through the Archdiocese, and were given the project of visiting all the units in a newly renovated and reopened low income independent living complex, where each morning, the office personnel announced that the “listening Sisters” had arrived  to go through the building, visiting. Visiting these people who were only now returning to their hometown after more than three years , was an experience of  the resilience of the human being, the tug of “home” for people,  the reaching out to each other to make return less traumatic.  To actually meet some of the very people whose pictures covered the newspapers around the country was humbling in the gift of trust as they opened their hearts. As Sister Marcia says, “I received the gifts of faith, hope, love and the challenging gifts to be more resilient, more engaged with life, more trusting in the Abundance of God’s presence and love.’

Sisters Miriam and Lucivane, student Sister from Brazil, worked with an agency cleaning up and reorganizing space for their future projects. For the two, it was the opportunity to see for themselves both the on-going devastation and the small glimpses of hope that grow each day, Lucivane having followed the original horror from her province in Brazil, Miriam from Maine, and whose family lived in the New Orleans area. The faith and courage of the people, especially the Holy Family Sisters, with whom they stayed, as they had lost so much, was part of what touched Miriam in this experience.

Sr. Consuela hosted student Sr. Johanna and introduced Johanna, soon to return to her province in Namibia, Africa, to the work that she does in the parish, visiting the homebound and interacting with those in deep need in the area.

 An experience all of us have had in participating in this project is facing the fact that all life there is fragile, from people, to infrastructure, to stability of planning, and even the future.  As Sr. Janice encountered, the recurring questions and emotional impact of ‘Will there be another experience like this?’ hinders a complete settling in but “the uncertainty of the future is one that is held in faith and hope that Divine Providence will be constantly caring of all.”

 

 

Missionary Sisters of the Immaculate Conception, Paterson, NJ